Matrisms: 2012

Often men and women have worries about whether they should get married. They are uncertain if their love is something that will get them through the challenging times that every marriage faces. This is not uncommon, but it is something to deal with before your marriage day. Love is very essential for a marriage to work. So as your marriage looms closer and you start to have questions think about how love has gotten you through before.

Face Your Worries

Talk to your fiance about the worries you are having about having married. They may be having debts too. There is more to a good marriage than love of course, but love is the cornerstone to a happy and healthy relationship. To help relieve your doubts as your wedding nears there are things you can do that will help you.

Think about Why You Fell in Love in the First Place

There is something that attracts you to your fiance. Even in the past there were factors that made you love him. These are the factors you are going to want to focus on. Do you think he continue to loves you? If so you know that the marriage is right. Marriage with a man that loves you and desires to care for you bodily and emotionally is what every woman wants. You have that in your gentleman. He is still the man you fell in love with. You may have neglected that because of the stress of preparing for the marriage.

Talk with Your Fiance

You need to have interaction with your fiance so he knows what it is that is disturbing you. Could be his questions are the same as yours and you can work on them jointly. When there is interaction everything can be solved. Sometimes marriage arrangements take away the time you have for interaction making things tense among the two of you. As long as you can sit down and talk about your doubts you have a good chance of having a very effective marriage.

Don't Hang Around Doubters

Some people are not going to accept of your marriage plans and will try to split you and your fiance up. This could be friends or parents. They may talk badly about your fiance and pummel you with negative thoughts. This is anything you don't need to listen to. Try not to spend time with the naysayer and spend time with your fiance and people who are behind your marriage to your fiance. If it is a parent let them know you have no intention of changing your programs to please them. This is about your life and your happiness.

Spend Time Jointly

Rekindle your love with your fiance. It is possible you have not been very romantic since the begin of wedding plans. Change this by going on a romantic few days retreat. Enjoy each others company and don't discuss marriage plans. This is time to spend on romance not traumatic marriage plans. It certainly won't hurt to get to know one another all over again.

Although there are periods when you may not truly love your fiance, most of the time you will find you do. Don't get married without having love however. Love should always be the base for a successful marriage.

Friday, 23 November 2012

law of fascination

What exactly is the law of fascination? Simply put, it is whatever you put out to the galaxy you'll get back. Is it that simple you may ask? The correct answer is yes. Let's take a time and think about it.

Here is a situation, you're on the way to work and you get a flat tire, and you've get mad and all of rapid you spill your coffee on your lap. Then you choose to throw a few colorful expletives to the galaxy. "This is going to be a great bleeping day!" Guess where all that negative energy is going? It's all going back to you. You're now in the zone, my friend and more negative thoughts activity is coming your way. Your boss might yell at you because your TPS reports are wrong and make your day even worse.

Let's start our day over just like Bill Murray did in "Ground Hog Day." You wake up and taste your first cup of coffee and say thank you to the universe for the great cup of coffee. On the way to work, you notice that the weather is wonderful and you're grateful for the nice day outside. Just by changing your focus, do you think you'll still get a flat tire? Who knows, but maybe that flat tire saved you from a serious incident. Are you beginning to get it?

Your answer might be yes, but it sounds very new age to me. That might be a stigma for some, but a lot of huge physicists believe it is a truth. The idea is to ask, believe and receive. In the book the "Secret", it told the story of man who imagined a certain feather with distinctive colors in his mind, only to find it at his doorstep the next day.

One of the teachers described in "The Secret" is named John Asaraff. He was talking to his young son in his office and his son was inquisitive about a box that he was sitting on. They opened it up and noticed a vision board with certain images on it that was packed away. A vision board is a board with images relevant to the goals or possessions you want to achieve in your life. John had noticed that on the board was a picture of his favorite house he wanted to own one day. After looking carefully at the picture, he realized that it was the exact house he was living in. Let me say that again, John didn't realize until that moment that he was living in the same house he always wanted. How cool is that!

Monday, 19 November 2012

The Girl Who Has Almost everything-what to Gift her?

Is it the time of year again where you have to buy a gift for that girl who truly doesn't need or want for anything at all? How frustrating is she to buy for?! Almost everything you find that you think would be the excellent gift for her, it turns out that she already has a hundred of them. So, what else is there to give? It's probably time you thought about the larger picture and saw past all those wonderful material things you've bought for her in the past.

The girl who has everything may not be a completely true description. She might have everything but that excellent time to kick back and do exactly what she wants. What does she really like doing? Listening to music, studying, walking the dogs? One interesting idea, which you could pass off as a gift is to merge her favorite activities into that one special day. Sound tricky and like a lot of effort? It's amazingly simpler than you think and of course, you need to put in the effort. How much would you love her if she did the same for you? Play your cards perfect and she could well do!

Present her with morning meal in bed or brunch and a new romantic novel that you know she hasn't read. If she loves investing time outdoors, arrange a picnic and drive to the closest field or beach for the afternoon. Just go back to basics and enjoy each other's company while neglecting about all the usual day-to-day problems and cares. If it's raining, cuddle up under a cover in front of the fire with a chick flick, candy and a cup of tea. There is no feeling like being warm within while the rain lashes down outside. Come evening, take her out for dinner and some live music or dance the night away. Just give her the gift of a whole day, where everything goes her way because let's face it, when does it ever?

I bet it all sounds pretty simple now and if all goes to plan, I assurance that she'll appreciate and remember the day forever, as you will too. It might sound a bit soppy and needlessly romantic but all it takes is a little bit of preparation and dedication to that special girl and you'll see the wonders it does for the soul -both hers and yours.