The carrot, egg and coffee bean

A young woman went to her mother and informed her about her life and how factors were so difficult for her. She did not know how she was proceeding to make it and desired to give up. She was weary of battling and fighting.
It appeared that, as one issue was solved, a new one ocurred. Her mother took her to the kitchen area. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil. In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans.......................The carrot, egg and coffee bean