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It’s fine to be single

We all seem to walk around with a stigma that we need love or more perfectly, that we need a man. Society has made it a bad thing to be older women who has yet to marry. Or holding out for the right one.
Well I say who is to say that we can not be happy as we are. We were made alone, why we can not be happy and satisfied without that man lying next to us at night. Now you may think that I am an anti-man woman, but I ensure you I am not. What I will say, is by leaving my husband of 8 years, I have grown more as a woman in such short years.
I have learned when I was not running a household, job and tailoring to a man, I had so much more time to do what I wanted. The amount of energy that was put in to special activities that he wouldn’t even remember, I could have easily spent this time enhancing myself.
It has been almost three years and I have dated a few times, but it seems to be more trouble than it is worth. Why does it always feel like you always have to be “On?” I mean ladies think about it, how many times you have talked to your girlfriend’s about one of their men. Over and over again, second task, try one discussion that doesn’t consist of a man and see how much you really have to talk about.
Why? Well because we have made the search for the man of our dreams, rule our entire existence. I know alot of women who can tell you dates and times of events by who she was going out with. I say this is ridiculous, what happened to us? Where did we as women go or better yet as individuals?..............read more at>>>>>>>.It’s fine to be single